kaja's kornerš
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Welcome to Kajaās KornerāØ: my personal, more informal little catch up series that I send out every month or so! Happy to have you hereš!
Oh my goodness weāve reached February already! Going from what feels like the longest month of the year to the literal shortest always feels a little weird (who planned that?)! I first wanted to say that Iāve been loving all your messages of how much my posts have been helping you through such dark times! It always means so much to know that even one little thing Iāve shared can make a positive difference in someoneās dayš„¹.

In addition to what Iāve already shared in the seven posts since my last Kajaās Korner, here are the top three past, present, and future brain health + wellness tips that Iāve been implementing:
š§”Past: This winter has been a whirlwind of highs and lows! If I had to choose only one thing that has helped me the most during those low stretches, itās been exercising. I do it in the morning so that I donāt have time to talk myself out of it!
šPresent: Every morning before I look at my phone-
(other than to turn off my alarm- Iāve been looking into a gentle alarm clock so that I donāt have to keep my phone by my bed, but havenāt found a style I like yetā if you have any recommendations for one please let me know!)
Iāve been reading a poem from the Romantic era! I love this new ritual Iāve implemented because poetry not only celebrates The Little Things in life, but it helps me feel at peace leaning into the themes of Romanticism during the present time that parallels many similar themes to what these writers were also struggling with (ex: a return to things such as nature during a period of technological advancement). Also, reading poetry from writers who are long gone feels like they are holding my hand, guiding me with their wisdom, and helping me put my own time on this planet into perspectiveš®.
š©·Future: I learned another interesting perspective this week which Iām curious to try to implement in the future. Itās that humans arenāt meant to live a life with zero problems. Problems are key to our human experience, and thereās never going to be a time where we will forever be free from them. This sounds obvious, but how often are we upset that we have problems to begin with? I know that I get annoyed when yet another problem comes up after I just got over something else. But if weāre constantly challenging ourselves, problems are bound to come up. And if you try to avoid any potential problems, youāre avoiding life and not growing as a person. Maybe thatās okay to you, but I think if youāre reading this youāre a bit like me and like to try to improve themself. In fact, itās better for your brain health and will help you live longer if you do. So in the future, when the next problem comes up, Iām going to try to ask myself things like:
What can I learn from this?
How can this help me?
How can this make me stronger?
How can I be creative about solving this?
In what ways will I be proud of myself when I get through this?
Or perhaps the most radical question of all, that my partner taught me: How can I learn to love this?
Some problems are worse than others. All I can hope for is that my life will keep giving me good problems to solveā¦or maybe one day I will see them all as good problemsš.
In case you missed them, hereās a little recap of my last seven posts:
š¶How singing will actually, scientifically, give you good vibes!
š«Proof that experts arenāt always correct!
šŖšŖMy favourite Estonian holiday!
šRead this if youāre a high-achiever!
āļøRead this if you want to make your dreams come trueš„°
šAn exploration of letting go for the people who like control (me too)
šWhat cognitive neuroscience says is the most restorative way to experience nature!
Thank you for reading this week, and may your soul be filled with starsāØ



